Never again.

We were eating lunch the other day, four weeks after the first date (four weeks of him NOT asking me out again, after which I sucked it up and decided to take the initiative...again) and he told me he was dating someone now.

Well. That's news to me.

Especially when he took ME out a month ago, and said he wanted to do it again.

I don't get it. If he liked this girl before he took me out, he should have said no when I asked him out. And if he started dating her recently, he should never have said "let's do this again" to me. I just don't understand how you can take a girl out and tell her you want to do it again, and then be dating someone else a month later. And if that is what you were going to do...why wouldn't you just tell the first girl, instead of leaving her hanging? Or until you could slip it casually into conversation?

Two conclusions: (1) he was oblivious to me liking him, though I made it glaringly obvious (trust me), and is a complete idiot, or (2) he's an asshole.

Neither of those options are adequate boyfriend material. Fail.

Too bad I liked him for a year. So many wasted months. And on such a douchebag.

I give up.